Help, my new puppy/dog doesn’t like wearing a collar!!!

My new puppy/dog doesn’t like the collar


Let’s start this off with a story from the Homefront of two human puppies: when I was in second grade in Germany, I had a friend who lived on an Air Force Base back then. I frequently went home with her after school to hang out and play. One afternoon, she and I decided to go to a bigger and more exciting playground in the housing area on base. Off we went. After a short while, we lost orientation because pretty much every apartment building on base looked the same except for the building number on it, and there were playgrounds by pretty much every building except for the one we were looking for. We realized that we were lost. Two little German kids who didn’t speak a flick English, couldn’t remember the building number my friend lived in, didn’t know what street she lived on and which way to go. Great job. We were frightened. I remember a nice lady grabbing us by the hand, leading us around the housing area past every building, trying to help us find our way back. We eventually found our building, but it was already getting dark.
Two little human puppies, who had no identification on them and weren’t able to communicate where “Home” is. Do not let that happen to your four-legged puppy. 
One of the essential early lessons in a puppy’s life is getting used to wearing a collar. Though it might seem like a small detail, this step is crucial for their safety and well-being. 
Safety First: The Importance of a Collar
The primary reason for getting your puppy accustomed to a collar is safety. A collar is a fundamental tool for identification, especially if your puppy gets lost. It allows others to see that the puppy has an owner and can even hold an ID tag with your contact information. In emergencies or accidental escapes, a collar significantly increases the chances of your puppy being safely returned to you.
Aversive Reactions Are Normal
When first introduced to a collar, puppies might react with confusion or discomfort. It’s common for them to scratch at the collar, trying to figure out what’s new around their neck. This scratching is simply a reaction to something they’re not used to, and it’s a normal part of their adjustment period.
Aversive reactions, such as temper tantrums or excessive fussing, might occur as your puppy gets used to the collar. These reactions are expected and will generally subside as the puppy becomes more accustomed to wearing it. Patience is key during this phase. Avoiding a negative response and providing positive reinforcement will help your puppy accept the collar more quickly.
Understanding Puppy Behavior: It’s Not Just About ‘Liking’
It’s important to remember that attributing human emotions to your puppy—such as saying they “don’t like” the collar—is a form of anthropomorphism. Puppies don’t experience discomfort or dislike the same way humans do. Instead, they’re simply adjusting to a new sensation.
Puppies are naturally curious and may initially find the collar distracting or uncomfortable because it’s an unfamiliar feeling. Over time, as they grow accustomed to it, they will stop fussing and the collar will become a normal part of their daily life.
Tips for a Smooth Collar Introduction

1. Start Early: Introduce the collar to your puppy as early as possible. The sooner they start wearing it, the quicker they’ll get used to it.
2. Positive Reinforcement: Use treats and praise to create positive associations with the collar. Reward your puppy for wearing it, even if it’s just for short periods at first. Every time you are putting the collar on your puppy, reward your pup.
3. Gradual Increase: Begin by letting your puppy wear the collar for short intervals, gradually increasing the duration as they become more comfortable.
4. Check for Fit: Ensure the collar is properly fitted—not too tight, but snug enough that it doesn’t slip over their head. You should be able to fit two fingers between the collar and your puppy’s neck.
5. Monitor and Adjust: Keep an eye on how your puppy adjusts. If they seem to be scratching excessively or if the collar causes any irritation, adjust the fit or consult your veterinarian for advice. Sometimes the material might not be suited for your puppy.

Getting your puppy used to wearing a collar is a small but significant step in their development. It enhances their safety, helps them become accustomed to new sensations, and builds a foundation for future training. While initial reactions might be aversive, remember that with patience and positive reinforcement, your puppy will soon accept the collar as a natural part of their daily life.
By understanding and addressing these early challenges, you’re setting your puppy up for a secure and happy future.
Happy training!

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